So we have this kind of idea… Some people, young people in particular, when they’re falling in love, they say “Oh how nice! Everything is fine! My vision is paradise!”. You have that paradise-vision that moment. But then you go ahead one month… one year… after two years, there is no your love, your love is disappeared already. Some people decided to be together for lifetime, which is called husband and wife, which is called their marriage. But then after a while they say “Oh we couldn’t be together!”. Why? Because impermanent. There is nothing stable.
Even we’re thinking “This is something real! Forever!!” like this, but not true. When there’s something happening they’re very upset. They’re suffering for months and months. Why you’re suffering? Because you’re not knowing it’s impermanent. You’re not remembering it’s in time. In time everything can change. So if you don’t want to change, you pay respect to others, and you collaborate, and then maybe there’s some possibility to continue.
But your emotions are not stable. Any kind of emotion you have, in that moment you try to be present. Even if it seems fantastic, you think “It’s fantastic, but impermanent!”, that way you enjoy. That way you can enjoy really. If you’re creating a kind of illusion, you cannot enjoy, but you’re constructing suffering. So it’s very important then knowing that everything is unreal. And if you know everything is unreal you don’t give too much importance. If you don’t give too much importance, always you can enjoy. That’s why I’m saying “I enjoy!”. You enjoy also, we enjoy. If you don’t enjoy, it’s worse for you. Because you don’t know how to enjoy.
Our lives are not always black, always negative. In our lives there’s also good things. Good things we enjoy. If there’s bad things we try to transform, to change, and to modify. So this is how we do our life.
So it is very important you try to do your best in daily life. These are more important practices than you’re chanting some mantras, or prayers always. These are relative, but more important is to be present and to relax.
So now you remember, no?
Number one is Guru Yoga. Then try to be aware, and relax, not giving importance to everything, then you can enjoy your life.
OK, this is my teaching… Heheh… (applause from students)
ChNNR: Advice at the end of a retreat (impermanence)
ChNNR: Advice at the end of a retreat (impermanence)
Hi everyone. I have the following quote saved in my notes, and I would like to know from which retreat it is. I believe it's from a retreat that happened from 2015 on, and probably at Dzamling Gar.
Re: ChNNR: Advice at the end of a retreat (impermanence)
He said this on many retreats as it is a good example of how impermanence works.
/magnus
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"The principal practice is Guruyoga. But we need to understand that any secondary practice combined with Guruyoga becomes a principal practice." ChNNR (Teachings on Thun and Ganapuja)
~Kurt Vonnegut
"The principal practice is Guruyoga. But we need to understand that any secondary practice combined with Guruyoga becomes a principal practice." ChNNR (Teachings on Thun and Ganapuja)
Re: ChNNR: Advice at the end of a retreat (impermanence)
No it's at least from 2005. I don't remember specific retreat.
Re: ChNNR: Advice at the end of a retreat (impermanence)
As Magnus points out, Rinpoche said this many times.
I always liked it when he included story about the young couple who were so in love that they had to sit in the same chair at his house and broke the chair, a couple years later they couldnt tolerate one another.
Certainly very good teachings for us to keep in mind.
I always liked it when he included story about the young couple who were so in love that they had to sit in the same chair at his house and broke the chair, a couple years later they couldnt tolerate one another.
Certainly very good teachings for us to keep in mind.
"All phenomena of samsara depend on the mind, so when the essence of mind is purified, samsara is purified. Since the phenomena of nirvana depend on the pristine consciousness of vidyā, because one remains in the immediacy of vidyā, buddhahood arises on its own. All critical points are summarized with those two." - Longchenpa
Re: ChNNR: Advice at the end of a retreat (impermanence)
I always laughed with that storyJosef wrote: ↑Thu Apr 28, 2022 3:33 pmAs Magnus points out, Rinpoche said this many times.
I always liked it when he included story about the young couple who were so in love that they had to sit in the same chair at his house and broke the chair, a couple years later they couldnt tolerate one another.
Certainly very good teachings for us to keep in mind.
I'm trying to find the particular retreat because I would like to extract that part as an audio file. I know it might not be easy to identify it and then find a recording… but nothing is lost for trying.
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Re: ChNNR: Advice at the end of a retreat (impermanence)
This thread makes me miss Rinpoche, well, even more.
Meditate upon Bodhicitta when afflicted by disease
Meditate upon Bodhicitta when sad
Meditate upon Bodhicitta when suffering occurs
Meditate upon Bodhicitta when you are scared
-Khunu Lama
Meditate upon Bodhicitta when sad
Meditate upon Bodhicitta when suffering occurs
Meditate upon Bodhicitta when you are scared
-Khunu Lama