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She's not vaccinated, because she couldn't get the importance of vaccination and she read some conspiracy stuff like becoming infertile due to vaccination.

Now finally she caught Covid. She's the mother of a 10 months old baby.

Yesterday evening her fever was rising over 40°C. An emergency doctor came and said she has to be brought to hospital. An ambulance came and took here away. Her husband stayed home with the baby.
Then at 3:00 a.m. the hospital staff told her to go home. They said she has no fever, which seemingly was a lie. They were not willing to have her in the hospital.
Severely sick, without money or a key, without even a blanket, she had to wait in the hall of the hospital until someone read her message in the night and brought her home.
Yes, it's stupid that she didn't get vaccinated and yes, the hospitals are completely fed up with those people who come with Covid although they would have been save with a vaccination.

But I worry for my beautiful daughter-in-law, her baby and the little family.
The boss of my son said, he should come to work, otherwise he's fired. Nobody is able to think in a sane manner.

I fear, my prayers are too weak right now.
Thanks for any spiritual help. Thank you so much
For the benefit and ease of all sentient beings. :heart:
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Dear Ayu,

Oh well!!!!

I dedicate my simple practices to her, her family, you. All included in Prayers. Can you mention name? If not is okay.

We cannot even begin to commit ourselves to the path of selfless compassion if our mind is unable to sense the sameness of the ground we all stand upon. Khandro Rinpoche.

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Ayu wrote: Wed Apr 27, 2022 7:48 am She's not vaccinated, because she couldn't get the importance of vaccination and she read some conspiracy stuff like becoming infertile due to vaccination.

Now finally she caught Covid. She's the mother of a 10 months old baby.

Yesterday evening her fever was rising over 40°C. An emergency doctor came and said she has to be brought to hospital. An ambulance came and took here away. Her husband stayed home with the baby.
Then at 3:00 a.m. the hospital staff told her to go home. They said she has no fever, which seemingly was a lie. They were not willing to have her in the hospital.
Severely sick, without money or a key, without even a blanket, she had to wait in the hall of the hospital until someone read her message in the night and brought her home.
Yes, it's stupid that she didn't get vaccinated and yes, the hospitals are completely fed up with those people who come with Covid although they would have been save with a vaccination.

But I worry for my beautiful daughter-in-law, her baby and the little family.
The boss of my son said, he should come to work, otherwise he's fired. Nobody is able to think in a sane manner.

I fear, my prayers are too weak right now.
Thanks for any spiritual help. Thank you so much
That is so horrible!

Stay strong, dear Ayu. Will think of you all in my prayers and dedications at least. :heart:
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goodness is what comes to pass.
For those who do non-virtuous actions,
that becomes suffering indeed.

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Thank you.
For the benefit and ease of all sentient beings. :heart:
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I am wishing good health and good judgment for your daughter-in-law, her family, and her caregivers.

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Sending good thoughts and maitri to you all Ayu..🙏🏻
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May she be well. :meditate:
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Making aspirations for her quick and full recovery, and may she and her family all remain healthy. :anjali:
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Many wishes she gets well at home. Rest, hydrate, eat when she can. She has a storm within. She needs calm, restful place and help.
If you go help her, but I wish you would not risk, protect yourself! Gloves (take plenty), disinfectant, mask, and I used disposable raincoat.
But then again, you may want to let someone who knows to assist her.
I wish you enjoy your family for many years to come!
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Sorry to hear this and I hope she and your family get well soon. Prayers sent!
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Thank you, everybody for the good wishes.
Her temperature is sinking already. This came quick and takes it's leave quickly as well, I hope.
My son (vaccinated) and the baby (unvaccinated) are still okay.
For the benefit and ease of all sentient beings. :heart:
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I'm so sorry to hear this. May you both be without fear. oṃ tāre tu tāre ture soha.
Happy Pride month to my queer dharma siblings!

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Ayu wrote: Thu Apr 28, 2022 4:14 pm Thank you, everybody for the good wishes.
Her temperature is sinking already. This came quick and takes it's leave quickly as well, I hope.
My son (vaccinated) and the baby (unvaccinated) are still okay.
This is wonderful news!
Happy Pride month to my queer dharma siblings!

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Oh man sorry to hear this Ayu, I’ll dedicate and do some practice for them.
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May you and your family be well, be at peace, and be free from suffering. I'll keep you in my thoughts the next time I chant.
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Thank you again, everybody. Her life is not endangered anymore, but the (now lower) fever is not leaving quickly. My son and the toddler live together with her in the flat. My son takes care of his son 24/7 and yesterday he said, he has got a sore throat, but he doesn't expect to become severly sick.
Yesterday, I went shopping for the young family, buying food etc.
Last week I took care of the baby for six hours within their household. It was a case of emergency, because my son had to visit two doctors and the insurance company in order to legalize his care for the family. We hope, his boss will acknowledge this effort and won't fire my son.
I took care of the baby with FFP2-mask and I desinfected my clothes and body thoroughly after coming back home. Some days later I had a similar feeling like being freshly vaccinated. Fortunately, I stayed healthy and tested negative. :twothumbsup:
But I told my son, I would do this kind of babysitting again only in case of real emergency. I'm the oldest person with weakest health in the whole family. Therefore I think, I shouldn't challenge my fortune too often.
For the benefit and ease of all sentient beings. :heart:
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Thank you, everybody. She recovered and they both are tested negative on their Covid test now.
For the benefit and ease of all sentient beings. :heart:
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Ayu wrote: Fri May 06, 2022 8:51 pm Thank you, everybody. She recovered and they both are tested negative on their Covid test now.
Yay!!
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