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by bcol01
Thu Feb 08, 2024 6:52 pm
Forum: Nichiren Shoshu
Topic: Is Richard Causton's "The Buddha In Daily Life" from a Shoshu perspective?
Replies: 0
Views: 509

Is Richard Causton's "The Buddha In Daily Life" from a Shoshu perspective?

In other words, I realized SGI was excomm from Shoshu but if a Shoshu member had this book, would it be in line with everything Nichiren Shoshu teaches today?
by bcol01
Thu Nov 02, 2023 7:57 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one say no thank you to a former religion?
Replies: 11
Views: 1478

How does one say no thank you to a former religion?

I use to be part of a religion that I no longer want to be a part of. I found Buddhism to be the best for me. My boss is a member of former religion, and I'm afraid to tell him I am now Buddhist. I want to be respectful but am afraid telling him my new religious choice will affect my job. What do I ...
by bcol01
Fri Nov 25, 2022 9:25 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: What sort of mindset or attitude should a Nichiren Buddhist have?
Replies: 4
Views: 1438

Re: What sort of mindset or attitude should a Nichiren Buddhist have?

Hi thanks, that makes sense. It's my understanding that Nichiren Buddhist teachings on ethics are based on situational ethics. Also, how are we to treat others? My understanding is w respect and compassion. But what does this mean? Thanks everyone ☺️ :namaste: Since no answer came here: I don't know...
by bcol01
Thu Nov 24, 2022 7:12 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: What sort of mindset or attitude should a Nichiren Buddhist have?
Replies: 4
Views: 1438

What sort of mindset or attitude should a Nichiren Buddhist have?

Also, how are we to treat others?
My understanding is w respect and compassion. But what does this mean?

Thanks everyone ☺️ :namaste:
by bcol01
Wed Nov 23, 2022 11:06 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one deal with overthinking?
Replies: 21
Views: 2200

Re: How does one deal with overthinking?

Just depends on what triggers it really.
PadmaVonSamba wrote: Tue Nov 22, 2022 2:21 am
bcol01 wrote: Tue Nov 22, 2022 12:19 am Yea, I sometimes struggle to cope with anxiety.
PadmaVonSamba wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 9:24 pm
Has this happened very often to you?
Where did thise thoughts go? Where are they now? Did they eventually fade away or are they still weighing on you?
by bcol01
Tue Nov 22, 2022 12:36 am
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one deal with overthinking?
Replies: 21
Views: 2200

Re: How does one deal with overthinking?

Thank you, I appreciate the input and advice. It depends on the level of anxiety surrounding them. If it’s low, say a 3 or 4 out of 10, you can apply cognitive strategies such as just recognizing “oh there goes my thoughts again”, recognize that you’re over thinking and move on. They are just though...
by bcol01
Tue Nov 22, 2022 12:19 am
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one deal with overthinking?
Replies: 21
Views: 2200

Re: How does one deal with overthinking?

Yea, I sometimes struggle to cope with anxiety.
PadmaVonSamba wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 9:24 pm
bcol01 wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 8:59 pm Like, in the moment, what do you do when anxious thoughts arise?
Has this happened very often to you?
by bcol01
Mon Nov 21, 2022 8:59 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one deal with overthinking?
Replies: 21
Views: 2200

How does one deal with overthinking?

Like, in the moment, what do you do when anxious thoughts arise?

What are some of your perspectives and experiences with this?
by bcol01
Sat Nov 19, 2022 6:07 am
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one get over the fear of being cheated on in a relationship?
Replies: 10
Views: 1398

Re: How does one get over the fear of being cheated on in a relationship?

Hey ty!
narhwal90 wrote: Sat Nov 19, 2022 12:11 am Nice to see you back bcol :)
by bcol01
Sat Nov 19, 2022 5:38 am
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one get over the fear of being cheated on in a relationship?
Replies: 10
Views: 1398

Re: How does one get over the fear of being cheated on in a relationship?

Thank you! Great point
Johnny Dangerous wrote: Fri Nov 18, 2022 9:40 pm By realizing that others are responsible for their decisions, and that you fear has no bearing on that.
by bcol01
Fri Jul 01, 2022 7:53 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one deal with paranoia and fear of being cheated on in a relationship?
Replies: 9
Views: 1328

Re: How does one deal with paranoia and fear of being cheated on in a relationship?

The distrust stems from my own issues. He isn't doing anything to make me distrust him. I've discussed my fears of being cheated on with my partner. He's given me no reason to suspect. He's just super social and attractive and maybe I'm insecure--def something to work on. But I was just wondering, h...
by bcol01
Fri Jul 01, 2022 7:26 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: How does one deal with paranoia and fear of being cheated on in a relationship?
Replies: 9
Views: 1328

How does one deal with paranoia and fear of being cheated on in a relationship?

I've discussed my fears of being cheated on with my partner. He's given me no reason to suspect. He's just super social and attractive and maybe I'm insecure--def something to work on. But I was just wondering, has anyone here experienced these emotions in relation to their significant other and if ...
by bcol01
Wed Jun 01, 2022 7:59 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: If one cannot find the right Nichiren sect to be a part of, then is going ones' own way the best route?
Replies: 24
Views: 10052

Re: If one cannot find the right Nichiren sect to be a part of, then is going ones' own way the best route?

I can't believe I never saw this until now--THANK YOU! I do remember that pdf site. I think his name was Greg something. Sad to see it gone. Yea on what you said, I just feel like in a way yea it'd be nice to find a temple that aligns with what I believe is the essence of the LS but what I have foun...
by bcol01
Tue May 31, 2022 6:49 pm
Forum: Soto
Topic: Is Zen simply "sitting"/Zazen?
Replies: 44
Views: 4526

Is Zen simply "sitting"/Zazen?

Or do we add much more to it than what it really is?
by bcol01
Thu Jan 20, 2022 1:23 am
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: Is mindfulness part of nichiren buddhism?
Replies: 13
Views: 5228

Re: Is mindfulness part of nichiren buddhism?

Being aware of my thoughts, actions Personally I see the value in being mindful, but I think it can lead to ocd like behavior by making you feel like you always have to police your own thoughts, therefore limiting one's ability to fully live in and enjoy the moment, if that makes sense. But what if ...
by bcol01
Sun Jan 16, 2022 8:46 pm
Forum: Nichiren
Topic: Is mindfulness part of nichiren buddhism?
Replies: 13
Views: 5228

Is mindfulness part of nichiren buddhism?

Personally I see the value in being mindful, but I think it can lead to ocd like behavior by making you feel like you always have to police your own thoughts, therefore limiting one's ability to fully live in and enjoy the moment, if that makes sense. But what if anything does nichiren have to say a...
by bcol01
Tue Dec 14, 2021 9:08 pm
Forum: Nichiren Shoshu
Topic: When we chant daimoku, doesn't this summon forth the wisdom to know how to live and interact in our daily lives?
Replies: 3
Views: 4517

When we chant daimoku, doesn't this summon forth the wisdom to know how to live and interact in our daily lives?

Can we trust our Buddha nature? How do we know when it is emerging and, if that is basis behind our daily lives? Thank you for your insights everyone :namaste:

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