they probably haven't gotten over desire, they just don't want sex. there's a difference. i don't want a cupcake right now yet i haven't extinguished desire, not feeling to ready for sex either, yet again i'm not arahant... not wanting something cause you're burnt out on it is different from the wisdom to see that it doesn't lead to happiness.
สัพเพ สัตตา สุขีตา โหนตุ
the mountain may be heavy in and of itself, but if you're not trying to carry it it's not heavy to you- Ajaan Suwat