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ronnewmexico wrote:This is applying present culture and mores upon a prehistoric one..."Let's see ..... he abandoned his wife a newborn son (after naming him "Fetter") and snuck out in the middle of the night. Of course that isn't drunken philandering and but abandoning one's wife and child generally qualifies that person as Scum of the Earth. When he was first approached to ordain women the Buddha refused and aquiessed only after persistent entreaties by Ananda. I don't know about you, Caz, but where I'm from that's called Chauvanism. It's something else that usually qualifies someone as Scum Of The Earth.....
He did not abandon his family, they were left in the care as royalty in a kingdom. He produced a male heir as was necessary benefiting his postion as a heir to a kingdom and abandoned no one. They were the royal family. A heir to a kingdom in such a situation may abandon his necessity to do such if he determins it is not suited to such as long as he produces a male heir to continue the royal lineage.
He did not state women were inferior in this context but that the sangha would not remain as long if this was done....In other words the situation of prehistoric india was not conducive to such not that women were inferior in any manner the circumstance was a inferior one. Not one of todays standards. That one would abandon caste and gender were unheard of in the day this was spoken of.
Scum of the earth...think of what you are saying. Think about that.
I agree with the notion of not judgeing, I certainly will not that person. I am not qualified. But this is a poor manner to express that sentiment, comparing the buddha to the scum of the earth in manner however discrete. There are buddhists here, this may cause them to doubt their faith in a unwarrented manner.

Chaz wrote: While we're on the subject, how about Tilopa hitting Naropa in the head with a sandal? Sounds like assault, doesn't it?
Food_Eatah wrote:Argument on the internet is a very seductive thing
ronnewmexico wrote:This is simply not true..."It's true that there are people who would criticize him for leaving his wife and child behind, not mattering the circumstances".
The words speak to the assumption. IN the world of kings queens lords and such all are not necessarily found by birth suited to their positions of inherantance.
Some may for instance perhaps in a european context join a monestary instead. In the situation in which there is no other male heir in a kingship where the realm must go from or to a male only a male heir must be produced to extend the reign.
As this was such in the day so he did such.
A commoner thinks a male father is abandoning and leaving behind, as that is their frame of reference.
To a lord or king a male heir(in which such is the line of progression by gender) is produced and a necessity or obligation is fulfillled.
No one is abandoned as this is a royal family nor left behind.
So these things may be claimed or felt but did not occur.
Trungpa did get drunk a lot and did other things.
Wrong or right I nor anyone else can say so.
But he did those things.
The buddha did not abandon nor leave behind.
It is factually incorrect.
It is applying a conmmoners sort of consideration to a royal family.
Inherant to the terms abandoning or leaving behind is the presumptive judgement of the culture and the standing within that culture.
Trungpas actions may be indecipherable to us, right if you are his follower, and that is a valid point.. but it not on the same basis of cultural adherant.
Better example of such things may be found especially within Tibetan Buddhism. The teacher buddha serves as poor example in this specific,as he never did those things of abandonment nor leaving behind in that culture at that time
Trungpa did those things spoken about for the most part.
We shouldn't judge him but that does not equalivize with the buddhas story of life.

Tilopa wrote:Food_Eatah wrote:Argument on the internet is a very seductive thing
And when balanced with maturity often very informative.
Tilopa wrote:Food_Eatah wrote:Argument on the internet is a very seductive thing
And when balanced with maturity often very informative.
Tilopa wrote:
FWIW I think it's common for people to think of Trungpa Rinpoche and his successor in the same breath which can create a distorted view of the former. IMO Trungpa was a visionary genius whereas Osel Tenzin was a total disgrace but unfortunately CTR carries the responsibility for putting OT in a position where he was able to inflict so much damage. One of the great mysteries is why he did it and why, when he came to regret it, he did nothing about it.

Heruka wrote: its funny to see from one side of the mouth, poetry and hyped mythos, full of puffed up pride, and the other side of the mouth spitting out bad taste and contempt..praise and scorn/ duality manifest from a single mouth.
Tilopa wrote:FWIW I think it's common for people to think of Trungpa Rinpoche and his successor in the same breath which can create a distorted view of the former. IMO Trungpa was a visionary genius whereas Osel Tenzin was a total disgrace but unfortunately CTR carries the responsibility for putting OT in a position where he was able to inflict so much damage. One of the great mysteries is why he did it and why, when he came to regret it, he did nothing about it.
Chaz wrote:Greg wrote:
That's an oversimplification. "Vocal condemnation" is one thing, but there have been a few of his students, close and not so close, who have written books expressing both admiration and deep misgivings. Everyone knows about the open boozing, but it would seem that there was also much that was kept hidden from both the community and public at large - the coke habit, for instance.
I am not saying he was a saint or a charlatan, all I am saying is, knee jerk reactions either way are not helpful.
What coke habit is that?
Greg wrote:Chaz wrote:Greg wrote:
That's an oversimplification. "Vocal condemnation" is one thing, but there have been a few of his students, close and not so close, who have written books expressing both admiration and deep misgivings. Everyone knows about the open boozing, but it would seem that there was also much that was kept hidden from both the community and public at large - the coke habit, for instance.
I am not saying he was a saint or a charlatan, all I am saying is, knee jerk reactions either way are not helpful.
What coke habit is that?
There was a book written by John Steinbeck IV and his wife Nancy, titled The Other Side of Eden: Life With John Steinbeck. Here it is:
http://www.amazon.com/Other-Side-Eden-Life-Steinbeck/dp/B004JZWN7A/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1319727717&sr=8-1
They were close students of his, members of his inner circle. They allege that he was doing $40,000 a year worth of coke and Seconal and that his "staggering coke habit was well concealed from his students." These are just allegations, it's true, but I find them very credible. I've asked a number of people who would know whether or not this was true and no one was willing to deny it. Additionally, the Steinbecks were the ones who went to the NY Times with the news that Osel Tendzin was HIV positive and having unprotected sex with a number of men in the Vajradhatu community, at a time when Vajradhatu was desperately trying to cover it up. Otherwise the story may never have even gotten out.
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