tamdrin wrote:
Actually according to Highest Yoga Tantra .. You do need sex to reach enlightenment, .. but that is another discussion.. If you don't like the idea of sex as practice and want to practice Vajrayana your best bet is with the Gelukpa sect as they, in general, follow the example of Je Tsongkhapa who maintained pure monastic vows, thus he didn't use a consort, and consequently he was said to have achieved enlightenment in the bardo instead of in this life. Although there are always exeptions, in Gelukpa too.. Stuff happens in secret, people aren't perfect. And this type of consort practice that is found in vajrayana is not a teacher taking advantage of a student, or at least it shouldn't be- I agree with you there! What pissess me off is the monks who pretend on the outside that they are monks- but in secret they take women.. This is pretty common in Tibetan Buddhism-unfortunately. Maybe you should question yourself as to why you feel such an aversion to people using sex on the path if it is a consensual relationship?
Urgyen Chodron wrote:
But to tell others about the practice is a big downfall, many moons in hell, to even read it without being initiated the same. I can see why teachers often say it is not about sex. At least Namdrol has been honest about it here.

Urgyen Chodron wrote:when you go to a website on kalachakra and the lineage i was in and see that they talk about seminal retention in the empowerments, there is nothing else to talk about. put it together with what i read in the book, it is easy to even accept the trimondis. i do not believe that buddha ever taught the tantras and many scholars agree that he didn't. it basically came from india, and even a lot of hindus are against it, embarrassed by it and call it black magic. don't ask me where i read this because i don't wish to look for the sources again.

Sex is part of tantric practice, but so is eating, sleeping, walking and talking. Tantric practice is designed to include all elements from our life as part of the process of waking up.
Dechen Norbu wrote:So don't practice Vajrayana. What's the deal? Is anyone forcing it upon you? No, right?
But please don't engage in campaigns to smear it due to your lack of understanding and poorly chosen sources.

Urgyen Chodron wrote:The history of how Tantra came to Tibet by a Tibetan just isn't so. Buddha never taught Tantra. He never had secret teachings.
Trash it? Who me? I think that Tantra has trashed the good name of Buddha.
This is like a different lineage in Christianity starting centuries after Christ's dead, and trying to convince people that Jesus had a consort, had sex, etc. and then asking traditional Christians to not bash this belief, to just accept it because it is the truth, and because we all have freedom of religion. For me to accept Tantra teachings is for me to let go of my decency. Why not just kill people in the name of Buddha. You can have sex, meditation, and murder, well, add the alcohol too, all in one sitting and ask people to accept that too. And after you murder the person, you can sit and eat a Hershey's bar.
Urgyen Chodron wrote:This is like a different lineage in Christianity starting centuries after Christ's dead, and trying to convince people that Jesus had a consort, had sex, etc. and then asking traditional Christians to not bash this belief, to just accept it because it is the truth, and because we all have freedom of religion. For me to accept Tantra teachings is for me to let go of my decency. Why not just kill people in the name of Buddha. You can have sex, meditation, and murder, well, add the alcohol too, all in one sitting and ask people to accept that too. And after you murder the person, you can sit and eat a Hershey's bar.

Urgyen Chodron wrote:The history of how Tantra came to Tibet by a Tibetan just isn't so. Buddha never taught Tantra. He never had secret teachings.
Trash it? Who me? I think that Tantra has trashed the good name of Buddha.
This is like a different lineage in Christianity starting centuries after Christ's dead, and trying to convince people that Jesus had a consort, had sex, etc. and then asking traditional Christians to not bash this belief, to just accept it because it is the truth, and because we all have freedom of religion. For me to accept Tantra teachings is for me to let go of my decency. Why not just kill people in the name of Buddha. You can have sex, meditation, and murder, well, add the alcohol too, all in one sitting and ask people to accept that too. And after you murder the person, you can sit and eat a Hershey's bar.
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