Anyen Rinpoche's new book Dying with Confidence is this months Tricycle book club selection.
I highly recommend this book and Rinpoche. The book is incredibly unique in that it actually provides guidance for the logistics of a western practitioner preparing for the end of life. Rinpoche introduces ideas like the "dharma will" and other methods for making sure that our families who may not be practitioners understand our wishes.
check it out here:
http://www.tricycle.com/blog/dying-conf ... -book-club