So, you want a divine marriage with a masculine woman, but the only pretenders you have are males: the Silent Prophet and the Great PRed Anti-messiah?
It seems to me like you should probably just tell the two male pretenders that you're not interested.
Maybe your conditions are just not right. Are you still stuck in the house in the village without firewood and a possibly broken leg?
Perhaps you should address these issues first, as they might be quite serious.