where/how to get a robe?

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby JKhedrup » Mon Oct 28, 2013 9:32 pm

I don't think it was necessarily prejudice- maybe I am just too casual.

You seemed not to read the part where I mentioned being turned away from a puja I had the initiation for because of NOT being a ngakpa.

The ordained section is for monks and nuns- the offerings given to those rows were given specifically with the intention that they would go to monks and nuns. So in fact it makes sense.

If it was just that all the best seats were being kept and high ngakpa practitioners turned away that is another matter, but this was not the case. I don't think it was a case of prejudice- although at the time I was shocked when the offerings were handed out the reason became very clear to me. Monks and nuns maintain a single celibate lifestyle and depend on the offerings of the faithful to survive.

The ngakpa lifestyle is different- they are often householders with estates, earning income and so forth. It is not a matter of good and bad, just different.

The bottom line is, everyone wants to be special. I have seen some sangha members get upset at not being led to the front of the foodline- bad behaviour. I have seen a group of ngakpas insist bizarrely on performing an elaborate Chod ritual with drum et al (uninvited) in the assembly hall of Plum Village.

We always have to be sensitive to the rules and norms of where we find ourselves. That is why I did not protest at not being allowed to the puja. If it was only for ngakpas it was only for ngakpas- who am I to question that?

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby JKhedrup » Mon Oct 28, 2013 9:59 pm

Wow Adamantine you really drive a hard bargain. When I mentioned hearing HHDL and Karmapa mentioning at teachings I attended (by the way) about the robes you asked for a quote. And now you are asking me again for details. Ok- but if you really want them PM me, because I don't like to advertise the names of practices I do. As I mentioned, I wasn't offended by the context. The people didn't know me so it was nothing personal. Perhaps it was more about my ethnicity, though we did manage a relatively fluent conversation in Tibetan (I was studying in India at that time). Perhaps rather than saying "we don't want the drag of having to help a foreigner thumb through the text", "ngakpas only" was an easy solution. I don't know.

But honestly, why make a big thing? They have their rules and traditions.

As for monks living the high life, you will get no objection from me that this has to stop- it must stop (and I think it will, there will be less goodwill to go around if people abuse it).

I know several ngakpa practitioners from the mountains behind Dharamsala whom I respect greatly- one was a personal friend (though since he is a hermit I have no way of keeping in touch).

And while there are lots of ngakpas who live austere lives of practice, just like those monks in the expensive sedans, there are many who live on large estates and receive a variety of funding, whose children are all recognized as tulkus anad have high positions.

It is not that the ngakpa or monastic forms are wrong. It is just that the ranks of both are made up of human beings. And, well human beings will disappoint you in many cases.

AS for the story about the Guru Bum Tsok, I am very sorry to hear that. But I can tell you from direct observance that it has changed. I am not sure though that this example connects so well with the situation at the Kagyu Monlam. It was the Karmapa's express wish that monks and nuns be seated in the front but also be held to very vigorous standards of behaviour. We were not allowed to take taxis or rickshaws to the Stupa teaching site. Those dressed improperly were asked to leave, a monk wearing a gold chain was loudly scolded. I even got a light scolding for wearing my zhen covering both arms to protect from the cold.

Many sponsors from Asian countries donated to a special seminar teachings monastic protocols as a preliminary to the Monlam. There were special da gams (capes) offered later on in the teachings for the cold air (I never managed to get one). There were special begging bowls made according to Vinaya standards for the Sangha attending. So it was a very specific thing. I am outlining this because I don't want people to have a bad impression of the Monlam. Several lay lamas and a ngakpa master had seats of honour for several of the ceremonies.

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby Punya » Tue Oct 29, 2013 8:21 pm

Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche says in Advice to Three Year Retreatants (in his Collected Works) "The Buddha himself said it is permissable for anyone who has taken the vow of refuge to wear monastic robes." Do you think it's simply conventions and traditions about who wears robes now at play?
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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby JKhedrup » Tue Oct 29, 2013 8:59 pm

Are you sure he said monastic robes? And refuge? Not a vow of renunciation or promise to leave home?

I can think of several Vinaya scriptures that indicate this is not the case. Rinpoche must have had reasons for saying what he did but in teachings HHDL, Karmapa and so forth have indicated something else. As well, the Vinaya commentary read across the traditions of Tibetan Buddhism (written by Kunkyen Tsonawa) indicates something else.

So though DKR is someone I admire and respect, I would say his opinion is unusual from the scriptural point of view but also compared to the views of other contemporary masters.

The robes themselves are a tradition, a convention. The cloth, way they are cut and so forth organized according to ancient Vinaya scriptures. And in those very same scriptures ceremonies are outlined about how a monk receives the robes at ordination, how they are designated as his, how he can give them away to someone else and so forth. So the whole thing is based on conventions really. Otherwise, why have a "uniform"?

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby Punya » Wed Oct 30, 2013 8:13 am

Yes, this is an exact quote (translated of course) but, as I said, given in the context of advice to retreatants.
Just as the trunk of an ordinary tree
Lying in the forests of the Malaya mountains
Absorbs the perfume of sandal from the moist leaves and branches
So you come to resemble who whomever you follow.

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby Punya » Thu Oct 31, 2013 9:23 am

Now that I have a bit more time....thank you for the information JKhedrup. It's not a topic I know a lot about and I certainly don't have any plans to rush out and buy robes.
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Absorbs the perfume of sandal from the moist leaves and branches
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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby Adamantine » Thu Oct 31, 2013 9:50 am

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby TheSpirit » Thu Oct 31, 2013 3:20 pm

There are many ways to obtain a robe and many different robe to obtain.

I know in Chinese Buddhism most practitioner would wear a Hai Qing which is a type of robe that even people that didn't take any vow would wear.
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In Vietnamese Buddhism there is something similar to the Hai Qing that lay Buddhist would wear without having to take any vows. It is generally grey but there are some that are brown.
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If you want to remain a lay buddhist, you can also take precepts. In Chinese Buddhism if you take the 5 Upasaka(?) precepts you can wear something similar to that of a monastic.
(those wearing the Hai Qing and then the brown sash are lay buddhist that took precepts)
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In Japanese Buddhism, Lay Buddhist that took precepts can wear a Rakusu that they received from their teacher or made by themselves
(The Rakusu is what being worn infront of them, looks like a bag)
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I believe a robe can actually help people practice. Just like Kyudo, a Japanese meditative art of archery. The Kyudoka will wear their uniform when practicing. This is very important because once they had on their uniform, they step into a different mind set, leaving behind the busy noisy mundane world and entering another of focus and serenity. Practitioner can feel the different. When you wear jeans or t-shirt trying to practice Kyudo, it is as you are still distracted by the mundane world and can be an obstacle to practicing concentration.
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I believe this is the same with Buddhism and its practitioner. The robe is mainly symbolic and can be an inspiration for practicing and to put you into a different realm/mind set. I believe that is the purpose of the robe....not to use as showing the hierarchy in Buddhism.

So yes! Get yourself a robe or make one yourself.
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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby Seishin » Thu Oct 31, 2013 4:27 pm

Uniforms are something more - they show your affiliation to a particular school or practice. It "identifies" you to the outside world. Wearing a uniform/robe with the right intention can be very beneficial. Wearing a uniform/robe with the wrong intention can be very detrimental to both you and the school that the uniform/robe belongs to.

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby TheSpirit » Thu Oct 31, 2013 8:11 pm

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby TheSpirit » Thu Oct 31, 2013 8:13 pm

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby DGA » Thu Oct 31, 2013 9:46 pm

I think she's an excellent teacher from the interactions I've had with her.

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby Huifeng » Fri Nov 01, 2013 9:17 am

Chinese Buddhists' use of the long black haiqing robe is really just confined to the Buddha shrine and activities there, including chanting, repentance services, and so forth. Many places nowadays in Taiwan tend to use something quite different for meditation practice, more like the grey Viet Namese style robes above. No refuge or precepts required for these. The brown outer robe worn by lay people who have taken the five precepts is called a "mànyī" 縵衣.

(That other picture looks remarkably like the Berkeley Buddhist Monastery, part of the City of Ten Thousand Buddha's order to me..., though I may be wrong.)

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby TheSpirit » Sun Nov 03, 2013 4:59 am

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Re: where/how to get a robe?

Postby padma norbu » Sun Nov 03, 2013 5:07 am

I never would have thought of it before, but now I really want a long robe to cover my legs when I sit and a nice hood for warmth and blocking out a little light. The downside is I have cats, so the room I am thinking this would be most useful in would not work well at all since cats would claw at me the whole time and ruin my robe / disturb my meditation. Would still like it for sitting in the bedroom, though, when it's chilly out. Sometimes I don't want to get out of bed and sit on the cold hardwood floor.
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