futerko wrote:I would differentiate between the occasional need for angry words at times and the possibility of falling into an angry state on an "existential" level. If one or two angry sentences from you to your aunt can make things clear and prevent longer term anger from arising, then you might need to "put your foot down". That's fine if you let go of it as soon as the job is done and you avoid letting it "fester".
I am afraid of taking the wrong action and making things worse, or taking no action and making things worse...
pemachophel wrote:IMO, contact Lama Dawa Rinpoche via http://www.saraswatibhawan.org and ask for a mirror divination on what specific practices, either done by yourself or commissioned from others, will help your grandmother the most. Then also ask the best way for dealing with your aunt and Mother. You could even ask how to deal with your anger. Just a suggestion. The answers come from Dorje Yudronma.
Good luck and best wishes. I will pray for you all.
meepmeep wrote:please let me know.
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