Thailand, South Africa, China... I take it you like travelling?
China is a difficult place for a foreigner (it is a difficult place for the locals too!). Hang in there. I am sure that with some perserverance you will find something that suits you.
With the eye of wisdom we discover a lot of anger in us, any amount of jealousy, resentment, ignorance, desire - mountains of emotion whose existence we would never have suspected in ourselves... We recognize that most of the faults we perceive in others are only the mirror of our own negativity, the reflection of our own disturbed feelings... At the same time, we relieve the world around us of the burden of our own negative judgements."
Gendun Rinpoche Heart Advice from a Mahamudra Master