The ones i have met refuse to take the effort to understand Vajrayana due to way too much predjuice and samskaras; and end up disparaging it with arguments that show not being able to have a deep understanding of it. I say this with sadness, not with anger.
What they are saying, in effect, is that the Theravada path is karmically correct for them.
Right now i'm abandoning said Theravada group i mentioned previously, exactly because of this.
What you are saying, in effect, is that the Vajrayana path is karmically correct for you.
Neither is a problem.
Unconscious secularization occurs when we use Buddhism to support, rather than challenge, our neuroses!