I think this is a great resource, and I also have the link to my favorite author. http://www.accesstoinsight.org/http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/auth ... index.html
Ajaan Sumedho has a large, well-respected sangha centered in the UK. http://www.buddhanet.net/masters/sumedho.htm
If you feel the desire to find a sangha (community), I would suggest keep looking. If nothing else, try to start your own study group. If you really can't find a sangha, it is OK to practice on your own, but then you will have to remember patience (with yourself and others), be careful, and be curious. Don't accept the easy answer.
Since you mention feeling confused and conflicted by the various teachings, I recommend reading this sutta, the Kalama Sutta:http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka ... .than.html
You mentioned worship, so if you are looking for some more ritual, here are some wonderful chants. Don't be overwhelmed. Start with the morning chant and take it in bite sized peices.http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/auth ... nting.html
Finally, do not hesitate to ask questions on this forum. While I have seen people made to look like fools for claiming to have some sort of knowledge or expertise on this website, I have never seen anybody treated with anything less than loving compassion for asking an honest question about difficulties in practicing the path laid out by the Buddha. That being said, make your questions as specific as possible so that we may be of the most help.
Sotthī hontu nirantaraṃ - May you forever be well.