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Vipāka for our parents?

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Vipāka for our parents?

Postby BlackBird » Sun Apr 26, 2009 6:17 pm

Hello all

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

What is the Kammic result or Vipāka of our parents raising us, for our parents? Even if they may not yet have had the chance to know of the Dhamma, do they accrue a lot of good merit if their offspring go on to become practising Buddhists?

Do they accrue more merit for raising a son or daughter who goes on to become a practising Buddhist, than if their son or daughter were to live their life heedless?

I know that it is said that the only way we will ever be able to repay our parents is through the gift of Dhamma. So by this notion, surely our parents must have accrued much good merit?

Thank you again :smile:

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Re: Vipāka for our parents?

Postby Fede » Sun Apr 26, 2009 7:38 pm

Oh I don't know what my parents did to deserve me!!

They rejoice - I commiserate!

It was my godly and church-going R.Catholic mother who introduced me to Buddhism, by giving me Sogyal Rinpoche's now world-famous book, The Tibetan Book of Living & Dying.
Had it not been for her, I might still be wandering around unconsciously confused in Samsara... as opposed to wandering around consciously confused in Samsara, as I am now!

On the day of their 50th Wedding anniversary, in 2003, they participated in a Catholic Traditional Nuptual Mass to renew their vows.
I liaised with their Parish priest and put forward a piece of text -buddhist in theme - to be read out during the mass.
He was delighted to do this, and openly welcomed such a fusion of ideas.
I am so grateful that my kamma and rebirth brought me to them.
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Simplify: 17 into 1 WILL go: Mindfulness!

Quieta movere magna merces videbatur. (Sallust, c.86-c.35 BC)
Translation: Just to stir things up seemed a good reward in itself. ;)

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Re: Vipāka for our parents?

Postby pink_trike » Sun Apr 26, 2009 7:50 pm

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Mind is Empty
Emptiness is Clear Light
Clear Light is Union
Union is Great Bliss

- Dawa Gyaltsen

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Re: Vipāka for our parents?

Postby clw_uk » Sun Apr 26, 2009 8:29 pm

I dont see how they would get good merits if their offspring went onto be a buddhist, since kamma is intention and vipaka the result of that


I cant see how intention on their part comes into it?


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Re: Vipāka for our parents?

Postby BlackBird » Mon Apr 27, 2009 4:26 am

"For a disciple who has conviction in the Teacher's message & lives to penetrate it, what accords with the Dhamma is this:
'The Blessed One is the Teacher, I am a disciple. He is the one who knows, not I." -

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Re: Vipāka for our parents?

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Re: Vipāka for our parents?

Postby Mexicali » Mon Apr 27, 2009 5:23 pm

My parents will accrue a lot of merit for pouring so much time, energy, and love into a confused, trouble making fool like I have been most of my life. I don't think my dhamma practice has much to do with it.
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Re: Vipāka for our parents?

Postby Individual » Tue Apr 28, 2009 5:38 am

The best things in life aren't things.



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