by Vajratantrika » Thu Feb 07, 2013 2:09 pm
I agree with you. I *personally* feel a relationship with a Lama is essential. In my own case, I didn't request any empowerments until I first practiced at the sutra level, was ready to take refuge and bodhisattva vows, familiarized myself with what (at least on a basic level) it means to take an empowerment, found a Lama who I feel is sincere, knowledgeable and attained and who I felt a connection with and went into the empowerment with full intention of taking up the practices associated with it. My motivation was and is bodhicitta. For me, this is the ideal approach, but as you point out, aspiration can be difficult to ascertain. I can really only ascertain my own aspiration and not that of other students. It is through the grace of the Lama that we are entered into the mandala of a tantric deity. It is up to us to make effort to keep the practice commitments, maintain the vows and work towards liberation and enlightenment. At the anuttarayoga level (and perhaps others?), receiving an empowerment establishes an irrevocable bond between the student and the Vajra Master. The Vajra Masters are typically well aware of this. They have samaya to the students as well. From the Lamas side, they may have more knowledge about students than we (i.e. other students) may be aware of. So perhaps what may look to some as a questionable practice, like offering empowerments to students that appear not to really 'get' what taking an empowerment means in the fullest sense, may actually be an application of skillful means towards leading those students closer to the Dharma, or creating causes and/or conditions that will ripen later, perhaps even in future rebirths, etc.
But yes, my own tendency is to be a bit more 'traditional' in the sense of having a more direct relationship with my teachers and so forth. There are teachers out there where this is still possible. I don't mean that they are all available to chit-chat about every little thing - but when it comes to dharma practice, instructions, receiving empowerments, etc. there are still Lamas who stay closer to the traditional ways even in this modern world. I found one.
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May all sentient beings never be separated from bliss without suffering,
May all sentient beings be in equanimity, free of ignorance, attachment and aversion.