konchog1 wrote:http://www.dharmawheel.net/viewtopic.php?f=34&t=7511&p=133803#p133770
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kirtu wrote:PorkChop wrote:Thinking of guys like Brad Warner, who state that cleaning your room is all the love & compassion you need to show the world, don't bother trying to help anybody.
Brad Warner said that? He may be going though some difficulty now or he may not have been understood or perhaps he was off on a wild rant.
It's in the audiobook version of Hardcore Zen; I paraphrased a little, but not so much I think (the cleaning your room bit is almost verbatim).
He seemed particularly disdainful of people who volunteer for organizations like Green Peace without first attaining Enlightenment.
I stopped taking him seriously after that.
kirtu wrote:Pork Chop wrote:In the Lam Rim Chenmo Audio series I've been listening to, the quotes attributed to Nagarjuna are along the lines of "family and friends are temporary, better to abandon them and follow religion".Nagarjuna's "Letter to a Friend" is giving me some hope at least. Verse 48 is a little borderline, but there is some great advice elsewhere...
Where does Nagarjuna say to actually abandon family and friends?
As I said, it's in the Lam Rim Chen Mo audio course I've been listening to.
I believe it's put out by FPMT, as I can hear Lama Zopa Rinpoche inserting some extra guidance & corrections - though he's not the one giving the course.
Similar statements are made throughout, but it's particularly stressed in the sections on renouncing this life.
Eventually I'll buy a hardcopy of the LRCM and if I find the same statement in the actual book, I'll past the reference.
kirtu wrote:Inner or secret renunciation is best - as Atisha said to Dromtonpa "Give up on this life in your mind."
Well, there are two ways to take that.
One means living with your family, performing your duties like a disinterested robot, but secretly growing to resent them if life ever happens to interrupt your practice.
The second way means looking beyond the material goals of this life for refuge & ultimate happiness; which I think I can still do while extending loving kindness to all.