Quiet Heart wrote:
Today I realized that nothing else matter then being happy and healthy and making sure other people are happy and healthy
Well, that's a good beginning anyhow.
Now, of those two things, consider which of those two things is most important to you.
Is it to be "healthy and happy" yourself or is it for everyone else to be "healthy and happy" that is the most important one?
Can you be "happy and healthy" yourself or is it really impossible for you to be "healthy and happy" yourself if others are NOT "happy and healthy" also?
What's the answer to that question?
P.S. Okay, I admit it's an unfair question to ask.
Take your time considering the answer. No hurry.
My happiness is of equal value compared to the happiness of someone else, I can always be happy as I have no reason to not be, I cannot judge my health and is depends on many factors, my health is only important for the sake of others, because they may be attached and my suffering/departure may cause suffering as they have not yet understood the meaninglessness of life, there health is important because it is important to live happy and not having to suffer.
The reason for one's happiness being of equal value to another person's is because there is no one to define who's happiness is more important, therefore they are equal
Also this forum is confusing me, are there like 2 different parts of the website? its hard to explain but i find myself easily lost and having complications in returning to threads i have made. I think i have 2 separate accounts?( 2 different post counts?), i don't fully understand the mechanism between the forum posting/thread making
Update: i have realized there is dharmawheel.com and dharmawheel.net