Suicide and Murder

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Suicide and Murder

Postby MalaBeads » Wed Aug 15, 2012 4:48 pm

Been thinking about these two topics lately, most recently in the shower this morning.

Both are incredibly ego-centric acts. And profoundly dualistic.

Suicide: if you won't do what I want, I will kill myself.

Murder: if you won't do what I want, I will kill you.

That's the essence of each. Each act is an attempt to coerce the "other".

And each act is a failure of Mahayana practice because they put the deluded needs of "self" before the needs of others.

But wait!

Add to that capitol punishment. There are all sorts of rationalizations for state sanctioned murder. We are told it is for the protection of others. To protect society. But really, it is to satisfy our justice lust. Our revenge lust. Our superiority lust.

It is murder. Plain and simple.

Obviously, these are just my opinions. Others may think of these things differently. But I have been thinking of them in the context of Mahayana practice.
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby Doko » Wed Aug 15, 2012 6:13 pm

If killing someone was bad then why kill another person? I was always confused by this practice.

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Postby DGA » Wed Aug 15, 2012 6:47 pm

I hope you never experience the pain that someone who is suicidal is experiencing, MalaBeads.

It's easy to say killing of any kind is egotistical, dualistic, just plain wrong, or whatever. Of course it's bad and not good. Can you go a step further, get past the business of assigning blame, and reflect in compassion on the pain of the one killing and the one killed?

It's hard to be helpful to those who are suffering when you're blaming.

YMMV.

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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby Konchog1 » Wed Aug 15, 2012 10:23 pm

I agree wholeheartedly with your thoughts on murder and suicide.

Contrary to the natural assumption, I've found that depressives are more egoistical than normal people.
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby MalaBeads » Wed Aug 15, 2012 10:34 pm

Jikan,

I'm sorry to tell you this but I have experienced that pain. Over a period of many years. That's how I came to understand the dynamic. It's not theoretical or about someone else.

I feel quite free of it now.

Btw, this posted twice because of a technical difficulty. It was not my intention to have two posts. Could the mods combine the responses into one post? Thanks.
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby MalaBeads » Thu Aug 16, 2012 2:27 am

There's always a justification if you want one.
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby DarwidHalim » Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:29 am

In Mahayana practice, murder and suicide do not automatically refer to selfish act and do not automatically negative act.

This is because the nature of this reality is beyond positive and negative.

For the person, who realized the no-self, those 2 action do not create karma. But for the person, who is still dualistic, these 2 action can be positive if you are very skillful with your dualistic mind.

Take the example of the recent trend of killing in the university or school. Let's say you are one of the hundred victims, and as the victim, you are the only one at that moment who has the gun.

You see the murder start to shot all students one by one. There is no room for negotiate at that moment. You only have 2 choices - shoot him or not.

If you don't shot him, there are 2 consequences:
1. The killer will create tremendous karma. Kill 1 person is enough to bring you to hell for aeons, not to mention killing 100 people.
2. You let 99 people die for nothing.

Although by doing nothing, that is also not your fault, as a bodhisattva you have a call there, what should you do?
Should you save the killer from tremendous karma or not?
Should you save those 99 people or not? Because for the person to born as human is not easy.

For bodhisattva who still have dualistic mindset between good and bad, he has a choice there.
If his motivation is to save all those people, by shooting him, he doesn't create negative karma. Why? Because that action is carried out with the positive mind, so the result will be positive.

Unless you kill the killer with hatred, then you yourself will also go to the hell. THis is because your action is motivated by negative mindset.

The best is you are at the no-self state. Your action doesn't create any karmas.

We need to differentiate here between buddhist training path that ask us not to kill and the nature of killing itself.

Buddha suggest us not to kill, not because that act itself is by nature sinful. But, because 99.999999%, killing is always done with negatve mindset such as hatred, anger, etc, that bring tremendous negativity for the killer.

However, that suggestion should not make us become stupid like not knowing what to do in the situation of the killer kill 100 students one by one in the classroom.

Because, there is nothing by nature is sinful. This is the consequence of illusory nature, which is empty of self yet appear.

Suicide isn't automatically a negative action. On 10 June 1963 , vietnamese monk, Thich Quang Duc, did a suicide as a form of protest to the Vietnamese government due to repression to buddhism. His action did bring international attention that finally prevent the buddhism from repression. Vietnamese buddhism can survive up to now, we should thanks to him.

When he burn himself, he didn't move at all, sit still when the fire roared his body. He should be in nondual state at that moment.

I do not say, that if all monks kill someone or do suicide, it is automatically positive. Some are doing that with negative emotions or anger, it brings harm to them.

But, what I am not agree here is something like suicide and murder is by nature and automatically negative, regardless what is the motivation or whether you are in nondual state or not.

There is a thinking even like this:
Even if you have to go to the hell by killing the murderer, as a dualistic bodhisattva you prefer yourself go to the hell instead of letting 99 people die for nothing.
You feel disgust with your own selfish nirvana, and feel more compassionate for the life of 99 people.
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby DarwidHalim » Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:31 am

I am not here nor there.
I am not right nor wrong.
I do not exist neither non-exist.
I am not I nor non-I.
I am not in samsara nor nirvana.
To All Buddhas, I bow down for the teaching of emptiness. Thank You!

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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby Queequeg » Thu Aug 16, 2012 2:48 pm

Hi DH -

The Buddha's teachings on suicide by arahants does not sit well with me. My concern is if it were to be found by someone who is not an advanced practitioner who comes to a difficult time in their life and finds it to be a justification for an act of suicide.

There are a few references -

Mahjjima Nikaya 144 - Channovada Sutta

Channa, who I believe was the Buddha's attendant on the night he escaped from his father's palace, was terminally ill and lost the will to live. He took his own life with a knife. The Buddha declared that because he was an Arahant, the act had no consequence ie. rebirth.

I'm having trouble finding a link to the actual text. Accesstoinsight does not have it.

Godhika Sutta

A monk committed suicide and the Buddha declared it had no consequence in rebirth.

But compare the Vesali Sutta SN 54.9

The Buddha went into retreat, and while he was away, a bunch of monks, reflecting on the loathsomeness of the body started killing themselves - 10's of monks killed themselves. When the Buddha came out of retreat, he asked Ananda why the sangha looked so depleted. Ananda told him, and the Buddha gave a talk on the benefits of breathing meditation and how it cools the passions that lead to killing yourself over the loathsomeness of the body.

Being in a Mahayana forum - it might be worthwhile to mention the long tradition of ritual suicide in East Asia, particularly related to Pure Land thought. Maybe a discussion for another thread.
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby DarwidHalim » Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:27 pm

Thanks Q.

Your reference is helpful for me.

Btw, I just know there is such thing called ritual suicide in pure lands. Are you sure about this? I don't know about it. And I think if there is, it will be very strange. Is it a distorted teaching or some sort of cults?
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby Queequeg » Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:58 pm

Hi DH,

Its can be a touchy subject.

Shantao, a well known advocate of Pure Land practice in China killed himself. I don't remember the details. I recall other similar stories from China involving other Pure Land devotees. I have heard of at least one Tientai master threatening ritual suicide but he never went through with it.

I am much more familiar with Japanese Buddhism. I know of stories of ascetics immolating themselves - I specifically can recall a story about one that took place at Yoshino, a center associated with esoteric mountain asceticism. In that case the practice was related to Lotus Sutra and Pure Land teachings. There is a Tendai temple in Nachi where monks were set out to sea alive, sealed in coffins - I think they were headed to Avalokitesvara's Pure Land. There are many instances of monks being sealed into sarcophogus alive - I believe associated with Zen schools. My cynical take on this is that this was done to create relics (mummies) for various temples that would attract pilgrims and the $$ the pilgrims brought with them.

My personal view is that these people were out of their minds - they had gotten their minds onto destructive thoughts and somehow rationalized that these were good practices. Then again, maybe they had achieved such states of liberation that, like Channa, their acts were without repercussions.
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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby DeepFriedFunk » Thu Sep 06, 2012 12:09 pm

Ah... I've wiled away many hours with teachers discussing this subject! Obviously murder in a no brainer... very bad karma. But despite this there is the question of if you knew what Hitler planned to do would you kill him? I personally don't think I could kill anyone but then in not killing him (because it would have been near impossible to incarcerate him at the time) are you technically advocating the genocide that followed? I mean if you had cross hairs on him and decided not to go through with it what karma would follow? Knowing that he was about to murder millions of people?

As for capital punishment - it is state sanctioned murder and in a modern society I would like to hope we had evolved morally past this by now - which is obviously not the case. It reduces the actions of the judicial system to something no better than the murderer in question and if they are no better how can they possibly justify the task of passing judgement on someone?

As for suicide I do think it comes from the motivation behind it. The example of the soldier that jumps on a grenade to save his fellow soldiers, the monk who self immolates in protest in Tibet, the terminally ill patient who no longer wants him or his family to suffer unnecessarily then I believe this can be morally justified and they have my wholehearted respect for their decision. There was the case in my country (the UK) where a man was denied the right to have doctors help him commit suicide, instead he suffered horribly and has nearly destroyed his family.

But, as for someone who is depressed and decides to end it - i believe it can't be far behind murder. I used to suffer with very severe depression and the discovery of Buddhism is what saved me, I developed a great sense of love towards the teachings because they did what no therapist or antidepressant could. It's not that I can't empathize - this would be wrong - but I am also very aware of the damage it causes to those around you.

I can say, at least from my case, that clinical depression is very egocentric and caused a thought loop of "poor me" with no consideration towards other people and how your inability to deal with your suffering affects them. I was too wrapped up in my own sense of self loathing to even think about others. I went from the brink of suicide to not necessarily getting away from it but a huge improvement by the simple act of considering and developing compassion towards others and some basic spiritual practices. I am aware this is a tough thing to get over and also that certain health/mental health problems make it near impossible to cure which is a completely different case. I do know that I have pretty tough views on depression and suicide but this is because I am far from perfect yet and still look back on myself with a certain amount of resentment for what I did to those closest to me and I work everyday to fix what I did to my family and friends. On the other hand, if you can get over suicidal depression it makes you a much stronger person, stronger than never having gone through it - trial by fire I suppose.

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Re: Suicide and Murder

Postby lobster » Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:58 am

How can we overcome the suffering that leads to death for honour, avoiding pain or political naivity eg. recent Tibetan human fat friars?

I believe by offering alternatives. More advanced pain relief and developing the techniques of mind control through science. Meditation is not always posssible for crippling mental dis ease.

Someone I know with a life long crippling neurological situation decided to end her life. She was in Switzerland. Everyone though sad, supported her. Offering silly stories about future suffering incarnations would be as insulting as tales of heaven. Innapropriate.

I would urge everyone to live and empower others. Coming through great darkness is inspirational.
Please ask for prayers and support if undergoing pain.
We are here to practice, when you can not.

One day you will do the same for others.
Today I will send out what little merit my practice can muster for the well being of those in extreme pain . . .

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Postby lobster » Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:08 pm

Pema if someone was Catholic and decided to end their life and was worried about entry to Heaven, I would go along with the nature of their understanding and needs. If somone was a born again lotus from the purelands and determined to end their suffering, I would pray and speak according to their needs.

So perhaps I am a liar and breaker of vows and ready to be born as a low life cructacean. When people suffer, truth is no substitute for understanding . . . Offering subjective ideas at such times, is not required, skilful or compassionate . . . :consoling:

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