mrbambocha wrote:Isnt suffering a natural part of life?
mrbambocha wrote:Isnt suffering good as a driving force to improve?
mrbambocha wrote:If we never would suffer we wouldn't know how pleasure feelt.
Isnt the suffering what motivates us to progress and improve at work, with family and on your inner path (so we get more pleasure)?
How can all things be suffering?
Arent these stuff pure pleasure: sex, eating, sleeping, winning on lottery, getting a massage, spending time with friends and family, walking in the nature?
If there is no desire there is no feelings and if there are no feelings there is no driving force to achieve something.
If there where no reward for the effort no one would do anything, right?
So isnt desire a natural thing aswell to make progress in life?
Ive heard that the two driving forces in life is either to get something pleasurable or to avoid pain. How would life be without them?
mrbambocha wrote:Ive heard that the two driving forces in life is either to get something pleasurable or to avoid pain. How would life be without them?
Isnt suffering a natural part of life?
- Word "natural" is meaningless, everything is natural.
Isnt the suffering what motivates us to progress and improve at work, with family and on your inner path (so we get more pleasure)?
- Fear of suffering does.
How can all things be suffering?
- They can, as long as you have expectations toward them.
Arent these stuff pure pleasure: sex, eating, sleeping, winning on lottery, getting a massage, spending time with friends and family, walking in the nature?
- Yes they are, and lack of them is suffering.
If there is no desire there is no feelings and if there are no feelings there is no driving force to achieve something.
- Only partially true. Without desire, there is no pre-meditation, and creativity is released. Achievement becomes spontaneous.
So isnt desire a natural thing aswell to make progress in life?
- Where do you want to go? What is the end of this progress? If you find the answer, you will see how deluded people are, as they are craving for something that they had from the beginning.
Ive heard that the two driving forces in life is either to get something pleasurable or to avoid pain. How would life be without them?
- Effortless and blissful.
- The first Noble Truth means that nothing is satisfying.
-If we weren't driven by greed and desire, perhaps we would be driven by wisdom and compassion.
mrbambocha wrote:How do you mean? Arent some things in life natural and some unnatural? Overeating for example, there are no overweighted wild animals, so isn’t it unnatural to be fat?
mrbambocha wrote:But don’t we need that fear?
mrbambocha wrote:How can you live life without expectations? If we don’t have expectations we wouldnt do anything I guess. If you don’t get payed at work I guess one wouldn’t continue to work there for long, so you work there because you expect to get paid. Can we invest time/feeling in others if we don’t expect a good outcome?
mrbambocha wrote:But we “need” some of them right? We need to eat, sleep and socialize. We need to reproduce. How can we live without them?
Could you develop it a bit more. How can one do anything without desire? Whats the right mindset?
mrbambocha wrote: But how about wanting to get more money so you can help more people in your surrounding, or so that you can invest them in something so you can get the money working for you which creates more freedome then you had before?
mrbambocha wrote:How about work out to keep your body at peak?
If you never workout you will never use the full potential of your body, if you don’t work out your body gets weaker.
mrbambocha wrote:Sounds amazing! Whats the path to get there? The eightfolded path and meditation?
mrbambocha wrote:1. All things are suffering. (all things cause suffering)
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2. Desire is the cause of suffering.
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Ive heard that the two driving forces in life is either to get something pleasurable or to avoid pain. How would life be without them?
mrbambocha wrote:Hi!
I wonder if someone could explain the 1st and 2nd noble thruths a bit more in depth.
Im just gonna say how my natural thought process goes like and I would love to hear your corrections.
1. All things are suffering. (all things cause suffering)
Isnt suffering a natural part of life? Isnt suffering good as a driving force to improve? If we never would suffer we wouldn't know how pleasure feelt. Isnt the suffering what motivates us to progress and improve at work, with family and on your inner path (so we get more pleasure)? How can all things be suffering? Arent these stuff pure pleasure: sex, eating, sleeping, winning on lottery, getting a massage, spending time with friends and family, walking in the nature?
2. Desire is the cause of suffering.
If there is no desire there is no feelings and if there are no feelings there is no driving force to achieve something. Its the desire to succeed at work, with family and on your inner path that drives you to put in time and effort to progress in life. If there where no reward for the effort no one would do anything, right? So isnt desire a natural thing aswell to make progress in life?
Ive heard that the two driving forces in life is either to get something pleasurable or to avoid pain. How would life be without them?

Arent these stuff pure pleasure: sex, eating, sleeping, winning on lottery, getting a massage, spending time with friends and family, walking in the nature?
2. Desire is the cause of suffering.
If there is no desire there is no feelings and if there are no feelings there is no driving force to achieve something. Its the desire to succeed at work, with family and on your inner path that drives you to put in time and effort to progress in life. If there where no reward for the effort no one would do anything, right?
Ive heard that the two driving forces in life is either to get something pleasurable or to avoid pain. How would life be without them?
Total ease, complete calm, absolute freedom, perfect happiness & pure peace…
Absence of any uncertainty, doubt, confusion, any delusion and all ignorance…
Presence of confidence, certainty, understanding all, and direct experience…
Absence of any greed, lust, desire, urge, attraction, hunger, and temptation…
Presence of imperturbable and serene composure in an all stilled equanimity…
Absence of all hate, anger, aversion, hostility, irritation, & stubborn rigidity…
Presence of universal goodwill: An infinite & all-embracing friendly kindness…

mrbambocha wrote:
I couldnt imagine a life without pleasure and feeling, but I guess its because I dont know whats beyond that.
mrbambocha wrote:How can you live a life without feeling and emotions?
Isnt that to being apathetic?
The idea that there is no feeling or emotion is not really accurate. seeker242 wrote:It's like being out in the ocean, with big waves, in a boat that is anchored vs one that isn't. The one that is not anchored gets blown all over the place and ends up far away, constantly being blown and drifting all over the place. Sometime out into the middle of nowhere, sometimes it gets blown up onto the rocks of some island somewhere. The one that is anchored still feels the waves hit it, but it does not drift away. It's stable and grounded and it stay where it is, because it's anchored. Something like that.
mrbambocha wrote:So your saying that there is suffering, not that "Im suffering"?
oushi wrote:seeker242 wrote:It's like being out in the ocean, with big waves, in a boat that is anchored vs one that isn't. The one that is not anchored gets blown all over the place and ends up far away, constantly being blown and drifting all over the place. Sometime out into the middle of nowhere, sometimes it gets blown up onto the rocks of some island somewhere. The one that is anchored still feels the waves hit it, but it does not drift away. It's stable and grounded and it stay where it is, because it's anchored. Something like that.
Which one is the analogy of equanimity?
Jyoti wrote:
Out of the four noble truth, only the third truth is taken as true in the mahayana. The definitive teaching of the mahayana directly arrived at the third truth (there is no other three).
Jyoti
oushi wrote:seeker242 wrote:It's like being out in the ocean, with big waves, in a boat that is anchored vs one that isn't. The one that is not anchored gets blown all over the place and ends up far away, constantly being blown and drifting all over the place. Sometime out into the middle of nowhere, sometimes it gets blown up onto the rocks of some island somewhere. The one that is anchored still feels the waves hit it, but it does not drift away. It's stable and grounded and it stay where it is, because it's anchored. Something like that.
Which one is the analogy of equanimity?

catmoon wrote:The Dalai Lama is a pretty mahayana kind of guy, and he gave multi-day teachings on the Four Noble Truths, and he did not discard any of them that I recall.
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