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I dont know what to do

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villkorkarma
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I dont know what to do

Postby villkorkarma » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:46 pm

Yesterday my workmate got a sort of agressionattack on me and becourse we both doesnt have regular works becourse we are sick we only got a few more workplaces to choose at and they was sending him home yesterday after i left the work becoruse he was unfriendly against the other ones also. if he doesnt get allowed to work there anymore the problem is solved but i dont things it will be like that, they will suggest me change workinghours... maybe thats a sulution i dont know but kind of quite a lot a solution...
one suffer because one hasnt existed long : )

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Re: I dont know what to do

Postby David2 » Tue Mar 22, 2011 9:07 pm

First question is: Why did he get aggressive?

villkorkarma
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Re: I dont know what to do

Postby villkorkarma » Wed Mar 23, 2011 3:55 pm

becourse both him and i have much hate in us..
one suffer because one hasnt existed long : )

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Re: I dont know what to do

Postby Fede » Wed Mar 23, 2011 4:58 pm

Then you can do nothing about the hate in him.
you can only work to eliminate the hate (anger and resentment) in you.

Focus on yourself, first and foremost.
When all hatred has left your heart and mind, you will actually find it easier to have compassion and loving kindness towards him.


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villkorkarma
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Re: I dont know what to do

Postby villkorkarma » Wed Mar 23, 2011 8:00 pm

yes very true i think to.
one suffer because one hasnt existed long : )


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