by Dechen Norbu » Tue Mar 13, 2012 2:51 pm
This being a public space about a particular set of topics, there is the need that the administration implement rules for the benefit of us all. Beyond common netiquette, we have a ToS that each and every person must agree with before using the board.
It's very easy to let a forum turn into a conglomerate of threads filled with hogwash, superficiality, trivialities and all that stuff that only slightly remember Buddhadharma. If people come to a forum about Buddhadharma, they have certain expectations, the first being that what they'll find is related with Buddhadharma, not the wild propagation of everyone's pet fantasy about his personal Dharma.
A lot of people struggle to accept authority and I understand that. Nobody likes to be pushed around or see others being pushed around. We try to avoid that, but as you all we too have flaws. We are bound to make mistakes. We're no better than you in any way. Mods just have a role to play here, for free and sometimes without a simple word of appreciation.
We're mostly adults who know how to behave. Unfortunately there are always the few who don't and don't understand that their freedom ends when it starts stepping other people's toes. Sadly there's no way around it. For a public forum to work properly, rules are needed. Are there downsides to it? Of course. Not everyone agrees with the level of tightness/ looseness of moderation among other things.
Still, this forum is pretty much able to stay focused and the interaction between members is kept fluid and polite. People disagree with each other many times without violating the rules. Debate can be healthy.
However, I firmly believe we also have the obligating to protect newcomers- especially- from known frauds like Jax and others. If some people who stand for them could see the conduct of these fellows behind the scenes, especially when they get the boot, their benignity about their behavior would be swiftly smashed. Many times we deal with clearly unbalanced blokes that have the potential to harm the more inexperienced. We usually don't allow people like him to come here and try to propagate their distorted views about crucial matters, listening to no one, not allowing space for contradiction and risking misguiding others who may yet not be able to distinguish between gold and fool's gold just because they still didn't have the time to know how.
This topic too is just a piece of time wasted. Please stop bickering among each other. You can be civil among yourselves. I bet outside the virtual world you would be much more pleasant and careful. Mostly everyone involved in this thread is a good member, a nice person and are very much appreciated by us all.
I'll put this thread to rest now, if you don't mind. If anyone has suggestions, please feel free to make them as there's a space for such in this board.
Best wishes.
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Dechen Norbu on Wed Mar 14, 2012 12:32 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Reason: I just wanted to clarify that this post was moved here from another thread. Some things don't apply, like putting the topic to rest and so on.