So, before one can discern and abandon unwholesome states, one must welcome all experience.
(That reflects my not-yet-abandoned identity view -- trying to find agreement in apparent disagreement.)
"Why is it, Master Kaccana, that ascetics fight with ascetics?"
"It is, brahmin, because of attachment to views, adherence to views, fixation on views, addiction to views, obsession with views, holding firmly to views that ascetics fight with ascetics" (AN 2: iv, 6, abridged).
Kindly eyes, not verbal daggers.