Tempuserus, I'm a little confused by your posts. I am not a monk and samayas are not part of the Vinaya as far as I know If you have no teacher then you don't have to worry about what we're talking about here. You aren't the same as the person I'm talking about since you haven't received Vajrayana teachings but he has. So don't worry about that. Also I think you don't have to worry about breaking some vinaya rules unless you're a monk yourself.
Although many individuals in this age appear to be merely indulging their worldly desires, one does not have the capacity to judge them, so it is best to train in pure vision.