well, you might need to define 'jerk'
according to the commentaries, to 'break' vajra brothers/sisters vow, one has to
1. generate evil thought - a strong dislike or look-down to the person
2. take some kind of actions - with speech or body
3. annoy the person - he or she heard the bad words or got beaten, and he or she felt the uncomfort
4. pass the time limit of regreting - if you regret right after you did it, it's not difficult to recover the vow. The longer it takes for you to regret and confess the harder it can get purified. I remember after one year it's a total break, and after three years without regret or any purification it's hopeless for rescue.
To recover the breach of vajra brother vow, one has to make apology to the certain vajra brother and offer him in ganachakra. Annoying vajra brother at center and confess at home to your buddha status doesn't make much sense.