This is the likely source for it:
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka ... .than.htmlWhen this was said, Anathapindika the householder wept and shed tears. Ven. Ananda said to him, "Are you sinking, householder? Are you foundering?"
"No, venerable sir. I'm not sinking, nor am I foundering. It's just that for a long time I have attended to the Teacher, and to the monks who inspire my heart, but never before have I heard a talk on the Dhamma like this."
"This sort of talk on the Dhamma, householder, is not given to lay people clad in white. This sort of talk on the Dhamma is given to those gone forth.""In that case, Ven. Sariputta, please let this sort of talk on the Dhamma be given to lay people clad in white. There are clansmen with little dust in their eyes who are wasting away through not hearing [this] Dhamma. There will be those who will understand it."Then Ven. Sariputta and Ven. Ananda, having given this instruction to Anathapindika the householder, got up from their seats and left. Then, not long after they left, Anathapindika the householder died and reappeared in the Tusita heaven. Then Anathapindika the deva's son, in the far extreme of the night, his extreme radiance lighting up the entirety of Jeta's Grove, went to the Blessed One and, on arrival, bowed down to him and stood to one side. As he was standing there, he addressed the Blessed One with this verse:
This blessed Jeta's Grove, home to the community of seers, where there dwells the Dhamma King: the source of rapture for me. Action, clear-knowing, & mental qualities,1 virtue, the highest [way of] life: through this are mortals purified, not through clan or wealth. Thus the wise, seeing their own benefit, investigating the Dhamma appropriately, should purify themselves right there. As for Sariputta: any monk who has gone beyond, at best can only equal him in discernment, virtue, & calm.
Then Ven. Sariputta and Ven. Ananda, having given this instruction to Anathapindika the householder, got up from their seats and left. Then, not long after they left, Anathapindika the householder died and reappeared in the Tusita heaven. Then Anathapindika the deva's son, in the far extreme of the night, his extreme radiance lighting up the entirety of Jeta's Grove, went to the Blessed One and, on arrival, bowed down to him and stood to one side. As he was standing there, he addressed the Blessed One with this verse:
This blessed Jeta's Grove,
home to the community of seers,
where there dwells the Dhamma King:
the source of rapture for me.
Action, clear-knowing, & mental qualities, virtue,
the highest [way of] life:
through this are mortals purified,
not through clan or wealth.
Thus the wise, seeing their own benefit,
investigating the Dhamma appropriately,
should purify themselves right there.
As for Sariputta:
any monk who has gone beyond,
at best can only equal him in discernment,
virtue, & calm.
That is what Anathapindika the deva's son said. The Teacher approved. Then Anathapindika the deva's son, [knowing,] "The Teacher has approved of me," bowed down to him, circled him three times, keeping him to his right, and then disappeared right there.
It was only last year in a now defunct Forum, a poster there had made a remark, that somehow, today's Buddhists had mistakenly thought that the more profound part of Dharma was taught to the Laity or addressed to them when it was mainly reserved for the Ordained.
I never understood this part until I came across this story and the Sutta above and perhaps that's why some parts the Buddhist World has this condescending attitude towards the Laity that our only worth is attending to offerings and the temple kitchen or at the very least, a basic teaching akin to how the Buddha taught to Sigalovada, the young rich householder. I recall how a woman had told that in certain parts of my country, there are still traditionalists who refuse to allow the Laity to do chanting as they claimed it was the domain of the Ordained.
I refuted that with the Sutras. Of course, no doubt that the Dharma should be taught according to capacities of sentient beings but in the issue of accessibility of the Dharma, there should be no holding back.
Then, the Vinaya is another issue altogether. Should that also be barred from the Laity reading on it, for fear that some calculative minds will use it as an arsenal to criticise and cause a rift in the Sangha, which is one of the 5 Grave Offenses?
I recall that in the Chinese Mahayana world, there were Venerables who at one time disallow the Laity to read even Sutras like the Brahmajala which was part of the Bodhisattva Sila, containing the code of the Bodhisattvas but later, other Venerables allowed it on grounds of compassion and also to expose the more capable Laity to higher Discipline. Even in the Lotus Sutra, we see how the Buddha Himself, who only after 3 strong requests from the Elder Sariputra, consented to give the Teaching, and after that 5000 walked out, amongst them, the Ordained.
Reminds me also of what happened during Martin Luther's time, when he allegedly described how in his days, the Church did not encourage people to study the doctrines nor the Bible but merely limited to perfunctory rituals and at the most, listening to short homilies, and even then, the liturgy of the Mass then did not incorporate sermons but merely Scripture readings. Of course, all these were revamped at the Councils of Trent and Vatican II.
So now, thanks to Ananthapindika, we the Laity have access to the Dharma, the beginning, middle and the end.
And the rise of Vimalakirtinirdesan, Srimala, the Contemplation on Amitayus Sutras and others, they are a grave reminder for us as the Laity to cherish this Dharma learning opportunity, so essential for our understanding, practice and liberation.