you dont need any initiations, just dont generate yourself as chenrezig but visualize him in front of you. i say the long aspirations prayers in the middle in english usually when wishing for all sentient beings to be reborn in dewachen. so english is just perfect.
you can order it from here, it is free im sure they will donate one copy for you. and you can send it directly from the DKomcentre to your womans home.http://www.dkomcentre.org.sg
that is the website of the organization where you can get it. just go to contacts and see the email there and inquire there for the
CONCISE SADHANA OF CHENREZIG which includes the section called A DEDICATION PRAYER FOR THE MANI MANTRA THAT BRINGS SWIFT REALISATION OF PERFECT BLISS
If the thought of demons
Never rises in your mind,
You need not fear the demon hosts around you.
It is most important to tame your mind within....
In so far as the Ultimate, or the true nature of being is concerned,
there are neither buddhas or demons.
He who frees himself from fear and hope, evil and virtue,
will realize the insubstantial and groundless nature of confusion.
Samsara will then appear as the mahamudra itself….